mindset magic: the 3 words keeping you stuck

If you feel lost or stuck right now, this is a MUST listen.

I'm sharing the 3 words you should NEVER to say when you feel lost, confused or stuck...and what to tell yourself instead to align with clarity.

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Full Episode Transcript:

How many times a day are you telling yourself? I don't know, like, these three words are keeping you are the very three words that are keeping you stuck. It's like okay, like maybe you want to start a business, you're gonna have all these ideas like, I don't know which one to do, like, I don't know, I don't know. I don't know. Well, that very act of and thought process of just being like, I don't know, I don't know, I don't know, literally perpetuates you not having clarity, and no amount of thought will give you that clarity. The only thing that will give you that clarity is making this decision and taking action on it because taking action, making the decision moving forward with it is the very thing that gives you the feedback you need in order to get that clarity that you're looking for. So I want you to remove the words I don't know from your vocabulary. This is something that I've definitely been working You know, because I've been saying, I don't know, a lie just made this new big pivot in my business. And I've been telling myself like, I don't know what to do, I don't know what I want to do. And like, that's bs I do now, I'm just not letting myself know, because maybe I'm scared of what I do you know, or maybe telling myself I don't know, is the very thing blocking you from figuring that out. Or maybe saying I don't know, is keeping me stuck in inaction. Therefore, I'm not having the experiences and the lessons I need in order to know so I want you to stop telling yourself this story. I don't know. And instead, start telling yourself more empowering stories that are actually going to allow you to feel like you know, to feel like you have the clarity. Things like I am going to figure this out. I got this. I can do this. Clarity is already on its way to meet. There's nothing I need to think about. There's nothing I need to worry about. clarity is on its way. And it's um, I actually did this the other day when I was something kind of similar when I was feeling like just super lack of inspiration and lack of creativity for several days and I was telling my friend I'm like, oh, like I just wants to like creative juices to give loving again, like, I don't know what's going on. See, I don't know. And I was like, you know what I'm done telling myself the story of like, I don't know why I don't have creativity. I'm done telling myself the story of like, I'm out of creative juices and just started telling myself like, creativity and inspiration are already on their way to me, there's nothing I need to think about or worry about or do. It's already coming and literally two hours later, I found myself like, knee deep and writing down ideas for my podcast and was like insanely inspired and insanely creative. And I didn't even realize it until I was like Well, like I just throw it out eyelines for three whole podcast episodes without even like realizing that that's what I Doing. So it's the same thing with clarity. Stop telling yourself you don't know stop telling yourself like unstuck. start telling yourself a more empowering story like clarity is coming. I am on my way to figuring this out. I'm in the process of figuring this out, I got this I am going to freakin figure this out. So I hope this helps you and I being conscious with my language is something that I am really being intentional with. I was gonna say that I'm really trying are working on but I'm not trying. I'm doing it. It's already done. So there's a little love language tip for you. But yeah, just see if you can try. Just try removing the words I don't know from your vocabulary and see how things change for you because it's definitely shifted a lot for me and as soon as I let go, of I don't know and start telling myself a more empowering story. That's when the clarity comes.